Would you go to thanksgiving? If you were in my shoes?

We have a 5yr old 14 month old and 4 day old and thanksgiving we are invited to my fiancés moms apartment that is about 30min away, there won't be any major meal my MIL is very "cheap" 🙈. I'm worried about the stress of hauling the kids and newborn over there and then dealing with the little ones while breastfeeding (privately, I don't feed infront of people) Would you just stay home or send hubby and 5yr old ? Or should I try to go? To be honest I don't want to go lol let me know thank you!