"Depression is just an excuse. It's all in your head."

My boyfriend says that depression is just an excuse to not do anything or change your life. He doesn't feel like my depression accounts for any of my behavior. It really pisses me off. Ive been going to therapy and trying to help myself. He doesn't believe in therapy. He said I should just ignore and forget about all of the events that have scarred me, such as being raped at 11 years old. I don't have anyone to talk to so I'm just venting here..

Btw he has been through a lot in his life such as abuse, molestation, having both parents be heavy drug users, both parents in prison for years etc. He says as long as he doesn't think about it then it doesn't hurt him so that's why he's not depressed anymore. I told him that ignoring something doesn't fix the problem. I've been trying to convince him to go to therapy but he says, "Therapists are morons." It's so ignorant and childish.