Is it okay with you for your partner to watch porn and masturbate?

Question

masturbate?" /> Last night I woke up in the middle of the night and my boyfriend was watching porn on tv and masturbating. We've been together for 3 years and I had no idea he watched porn. He has joked around about it but then said he doesn't do it. I'm not even sure how to feel about it. I'm just curious what you laides think.

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My husband has had a relationship with his penis far longer than our 9 year love affair. I don't control when and how he touches himself.

He does watch porn, although I've never caught him. It doesn't impact our sex life at all, so I really don't care.

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I think it a little odd that he lied about it. maybe something about your reaction to him joking about it made him feel the need to lie. idk. I personally don't care that my boyfriend watches porn. he doesn't very often, but since we just had a baby almost 6 months ago and work opposite shifts we don't have as many opportunities anymore to have at it. 😂

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My husband is honest about it and doesn't do it frequently. I don't love it but I pick my battles. He can do what he wants with his body and I don't consider it cheating. I get sort of jealous but I think it's unreasonable for me to have that much control over him. If it was a daily occurrence we might have a problem but he does it very rarely and typically tells me. We're just very open with each other I guess.

Is it okay with you for your partner to watch porn and masturbate?

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