Choosing a Wedding Date?

Rachel
I'm just curious how all of you married women chose a wedding date. I don't really understand how someone can just have a very specific day that they have had in mind for years and years lol I'm still not even sure what season I want to to be in... I know it won't be during winter. Summer may be to hot, Spring is too early in the year, and Fall is too windy. So how did you choose? Did you have a specific date in mind for a long time? Why that date? 🙂