My mother is planning and throwing my shower for me and I'm very grateful for everything she is doing! However she is throwing it 4weeks before my due date.  She has changed the dates around for so many members of my family because it doesn't work for their scheduales but she isn't taking into consideration that I'll be 4 weeks from popping and I'll probably not be the happiest pregnant women at the shower... Am I over reacting.  Or should I just let her have her way