My husband doesn't like to go to my family events like for holidays, niece and nephews birthdays. He has gone in past. He has said he wants to go then day of decide not to go and then it starts a fight. He says he doesn't like going cuz he feels awkward.

He also does not want me to do anything that involves his family. Only person in his family that I know has expressed dislike for me is his father. And I am only allowed to go hang out with him at his brothers if I don't have my kids (they are from a previous relationship). I understand his brother doesn't have a kid friendly house so that's not a big deal but when He is invited for dinner or holiday thing he refuses to take me. He says its cuz his dad doesn't deserve to be around me.

I don't know it really bugs me. We just got married in June but been together 8 years and this was our first thanksgiving as a married couple and I hate that we spent it apart and my day before traveling was a big fight because yesterday he said he would like to go but then today he didn't want to get up and go. I just wonder if there any others out there who have S.O. who is also this way.