We live in Massachusetts, but we r from Utah means no family here or friends here at all. We moved here cuz of hubby job two years ago. Now we are having our first baby, we wanna a baby shower. We go back home ounce a year, every December!!. Now iam pregnant I'll be 18 weeks when we are going home for this holiday. I was wondering how can we have a baby shower without carry anything back with us on the plane, and we won't know the sex of the baby until Feb cuz insurance issue. Give me any ideas u can!!