curious about my relationship

Tabitha
So I'm curious that me and my bf has been on and off for three years and we recently got back together again back in February and we have tried new things like sex and taught him new stuff and I've haven't get a lot of attention from him and I don't want to let him go bc duh I'm promise ring and I've told him when our one year comes up that we are going to change to where we communicate more and hang out more to bond with family cause one of these days I want to marry him but he's not financially stable as far as he don't have a job he don't have his license and he is going to college and he's 20 and I don't have a job but I'm looking when I'm 18 and I'm going to go to college when I get out and I don't have my license bc I'm not financially stable either and my sisters got a car a job but don't have license 
What do I need to do to set a better example for my younger siblings besides the obvi and get financially stable to set a new chapter in my relationship