I am so frustrated!

My daughter is incredibly needy. She's not an exceptionally fussy baby but she goes from happy to screaming bloody murder in about about 20 seconds.

My husband barely held her while he was off for 6 weeks and still hardly holds her now. So of course when he holds her for more than 15mins she starts screaming because she knows she can get me back. Then he complains like it's her fault!! It's not her fault he doesn't take the time to hold her or put effort in. It took me weeks to learn how to calm her, to know what she's like.

She refuses to be put down, at any time, unless I lay next to her and I'm freaking tired! I just want an hr to myself!!