Can you ladies please give me advice.. No rude comments please.... What do y'all do when you have a boyfriend that hardly ever takes you out.. He would only take you out once a month. Well not really once a month because he would take me out once and then takes forever to take me out again. And its always the same place movies & restaurant. We been together for 3 years . we have two kids together... We was living together but he moved out couple weeks ago... I be telling him that he only wants me for sex. He says he doesn't. But he does. Like he would only look for me when he's horny but yet he claims that he doesn't.. Yesterday he told me he was going to new York for business but I just got on Facebook and he posted a picture & it says that he's in Connecticut! Sometimes I feel like an embarrassment to him.