bartholin gland cyst...HELP!!!!

Holly • 20. Expecting our first, a boy!! Engaged.
I have a bartholin gland cyst right now.. I got them somewhat frequently for 3 months straight, they would turn straight to abscesses and I would have to get them cut open and even got a ward cath once. and then stopped getting them until I got pregnant. I believe it's my hormones because me & my SO don't have sexual intercouse anymore. I am now 18 weeks pregnant and this cyst has been there for almost 2 months and it's just gotten worse and more irritated. I have try hot compress and cold compress to relieve pain and try to get it to drain. IT WONT. I need some home remedies to try and help this problem. My next OBGYN appointment isn't until Dec. 7th. Help!!!!!