Can't orgasm?

Question

I lost my virginiry to this guy four months ago, and we're still seeing each other. Things seem to be getting more serious, and I really, really like him.. But I've never orgasmed once with him. Last night he tried fingering me, and it felt amazing, but I still couldn't orgasm.. I don't know if it's nerves or what.
But when I'm by myself, I orgasm in like two seconds, but it's all clitoral. But sex/penetration feels better to me?? I don't know... 😔 it's starting to get frustrating and I shouldn't be frustrated with sex...
Does anyone know what could help?

Answer

I have the same issue with my boyfriend! I come very close but can never get all the way there unless there's some kind of clitoral stimulation. I have a small vibrator that I use for during sex and the orgasm is sooooo much better than just using the vibrator on myself. Talk to your guy, you guys will figure it out together and it'll make everything amazing! Good luck! ❤️

Answer

When he's penetrating you, stimulate your clit yourself. Have you had him eating you out? Like before he penetrates you, so you orgasm first. Talk to him, tell him you're not orgasming when you're having sex etc, it's better that he knows so you can try things out

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