modern grandma help?!

Rachel
Book advice?  My husband and I are looking to get my mother-in-law a book about being a modern grandmother.  She hasn't been around babies for 30 years and I just don't want to be a "nag" telling her all the new things (I.e. No baby powder because of talc, back to sleep, no stuffed animals and blankets in crib, my husband's old stuffed animals from 30 years ago are not appropriate for our baby because of all the bugs that can be living in them now, etc).  I know she will be receptive I just would love a good recommendation !! Thanks #firsttimemom #firsttimegrandma