parents not being helpful about my breakup..

I wanted to be more open with them, so I told them about my recent breakup. I still have feelings for him and told them that I still want to be with him, and they called me pathetic and weak. They kept telling me that he doesn't love me, that he doesn't care about he, that he wanted to do stuff with other girls so that it wouldn't be cheating. 
The reason he broke up with me is because there was an issue in our relationship, and he noticed how my insecurities have gotten and worse and that I didn't seem as happy with him, so he said he wanted to give me time to figure myself out to be happy like I used to, and wants to get back together once I've found what makes me happy again. We tried working through it for almost a month before he broke up, but there was only little progress, but my parents don't know that part.
They're making him sound like a monster, and they even told me that they'd rather have me depressed than be with him. Maybe I am pathetic.. I don't know what to do...