Birthday Blues!!!!

Today is my birthday. 11/28/1987

I live with my fiance and future father in law. I have 2 step kids and a 9 month old. When one of them have their birthday come up I make sure they have cake, ice cream, card, and gift and good birthday dinner of their choice. I'm not trying to be a whiney baby. I'm just disappointed in the lack of effort in doing anything for me. I have received only verbal Happy Birthdays. I know I'm 29 now but not even a card.