Husband has low sex drive?

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Lately my husband has absolutely not wanted to have sex when I try to. Unless he feels like it which is hardly ever! Even when I try to come onto him he says he has to pee or pulls away from a long kiss or just shrugs off what I'm trying to do and goes back to watching tv or being on his phone. Sometimes he'll even be aroused and kissing me and then he just stops. I've tried talking to him about it but he doesn't really act like its a huge deal. He doesn't even try to say anything like "I'm tired". Have any of you had something like this happen? What can I do? I'm getting a little frustrated...lol

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Same problem here. And he gets defensive when I talk to him about it.

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Amen! It seems like in the last year he went from being super horny, and since we got married we literally have sex like once a month sometimes 2. He has no sex drive at all. I don't want him to get testosterone shots or anything because I've read kills sperm & we're ttc. Today he started taking zinc, & he's gonna start working out. He's skinny already, but I read that'll help with naturally helping raise his testosterone levels, which will help with his sex drive I hope. Any advice? Btw he's only 20 & I'm 21 so he should have plenty of sex drive.

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Ditto, I want to follow this thread too. My husband would prefer to have deep conversations and talk about business and philosophy. We only have sex like once every few months...I'm way more horny!! :S we just got married and didn't have sex the night of...or up to a month later. :P
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​I think he doesn't like sex as much because of the cleanup afterwards...

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Maybe lack of sleep? My fiancé just finished school where he was working 5am to 3pm then leaving for school 4pm to 11pm. He was so tired he would never try anything :( He could be stressed too. Maybe too much on his mind to relax and get in the mood.

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Wanna trade? LOL my husband has off the chart testosterone levels.

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My husband has a low sex drive. I'm not really sure what to do about it. I've tried everything you've mentioned, but no luck. I agree, it's very frustrating. Wish I could help. I'm posting a reply because I'd like to follow the thread. Hopefully someone will have some suggestions. Had DH testosterone checked; everything came back normal.

Husband has low sex drive?

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