what path would you take?
So i recently had a baby with my boyfriend 5 months ago. We have been together 2.4 yrs and i have been so patient with him in hopes hat he would change. Im not saying hes a bad man but he has made no effort at all to make me happy.
Ive been raising his daughter as mine for 2 yrs and he takes advantage of me. I literally take care of her 24/7 with no help from him and I dnt even get a thank u, he hasnt even done anything for me for mothers day for the last 2 yrs.
He prefers to smoke weed as soon as he gets home, doesnt have more than a 5 min conversation with me, has me do everything with the girls, lets his family disrespect me, puts his babymoms who abandoned their child above me.
The one thing that made me resent him and deicde that i dnt want this relationship anymore is that he made me feel alone during my pregnancy. I was told i could never have kids and my daughter is a living miracle. I delivered at 7 months and almost died delivering her. He wasnt there for me emotionally the way he was for his ither Bm. I was in the ER every week due to preeclampsia and wvery time i asked him to go with me, he would tell me he'd rather be asleep in bed and i was left alone.
Now im at that point where i dnt want to be stuck in a unhealthy relationship, i offered to pay for couples therapy but he doesnt want to. I want to leave but i feel like if i do, my daughter will hate me when shes older. What would u do?
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