no orgasm??

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i'm just wondering what are examples of reasons why many women don't have an orgasm? my boyfriend and i have amazing sex all the time and i very much enjoy it, just never get around to the big o, and i know it makes him feel less confident and then i feel bad because he's actually amazing. but why can't so many women get there?? and what can we do to reach my orgasm?

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what you described is what my husband and I call it a "love-gasm". I usually do not have the big O when we make love, but almost always cry because it feels so good, loving, and close...hence, a love-gasm ❤️ talk to your man about this. I found that once I did, he stopped feeling inadequate and we both feel closer and more comfortable. If I want to actually have the big O afterward, I masturbate next to him and he helps me get there 😉

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I can only get off while I'm on top and riding vigorously... maybe try that.

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relax and try not to think about it too much! it's hard for many women to orgasm through penetration alone, so don't forget about your clit. just be patient and keep trying new things and it will happen eventually. good luck girl!

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So I was the same way for about 6 years, I never knew what it was like to orgasm. My current SO actually started slowly rubbing my clit one time while I was on top and it was the most amazing experience. I never thought I would reach orgasm but I did and ironically I was his first and that was only our second time having sex. It seems like my body goes through phases, we have sex 3-4 times a week and sometimes he’ll get me every time and some times like the current phase I’m in, it’s like nothing works. Just always making sure he knows I’m not frustrated or upset with him because I’m positive it’s my own body’s fault. As long as I know he’s really trying I’m not the least bit frustrated with him. Sex is still amazing without it and I always feel closer to him afterwards so even when I don’t, I know it’s only a matter of time before he gets me again! Just take it slow and explore your body. Get to know yourself and what you like! Once you get closer to it, communicate what’s been getting you close and just try things that you haven’t yet! I never used to like being on top, but so far that’s the only way that I’ll orgasm if I’m on top riding him and he’s gently rubbing my clit in a circular motion, while applying some pressure!

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When me and my boyfriend first started having sex I never did either. For me it was just finding that one position that gets the job done. Good luck!

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For years I was having sex and not having a orgasm and I started to focus more on the feeling, have a clear
Mind and also explore my body and clit.
Some stuff that works for me is my partner sucking on my nipple while he puts the tip in and just penetrate while I finger myself and I’m always guaranteed to orgasm!!
Or go on top and ride him but he also has to help because the clit is actually rubbing against him and that one is amazing.
If you really want to reach to that point you have to explore different position and actually penetrating the clit gently and nicely and no need to rush at all either just enjoy the feeling and hubby

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