moms of boys!!

ivana
i was just wondering how you clean their privates. my doc told me that pulling or not pulling the skin actually is a cultural thing and that it's my choice as long as i don't pull too much (just to see the hole). 
so we've been trying to pull it a bit, and it freaked me out because it looks closed. 😳 now i know that a friend of mine had her son tajem to a hospital when he was 8 months old or so because his skin fused together and they had to force pull it 😱
i don't want to hurt my boy so i would just like to hear how do you go about it, and what it should look like.