Is it normal to be afraid of sex??

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I had sex once when i was seventeen and since then ive been afriad to have it again. 
The guy who I had with oringally didnt tell me anything all he said was get undressed and I laid on my back and did me for two minutes and I felt gulity for giving it to some guy who never even loved me.

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I'm sorry that happened, that's a really shitty way to lose your virginity. Don't be afraid, though, because there's a great silver lining here: the next guy you sleep with will be someone who means something to you, and you to him, and it'll be a special, wonderful experience. You won't forget about your first time or how it sucked, but you'll know that guys can be dicks and you have to choose carefully. And when you do, there's nothing to be scared of.

I hated sex for ten years because I was having it with all the wrong people. (Granted, there were only 6 of them, but still...) Now I'm with someone who I not only have the emotional connection with, but a physical attraction that was never there with the others. It's mind blowing.

So, long story short: don't let a crappy first experience ruin it for you. Learn from it, be safe, and wait for someone who will show you how great sex with the right man can be. 😊

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That guy clearly didn't deserve your virginity but don't be scared of it with someone you care about. Don't let him ruin sex for you forever. That sounds like it was a terrible experience and I promise it can be a lot of fun with the right person who will make you feel comfortable.

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I'm sorry this happened to you :(

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yeah itscompletely normal. theres even an entire sexuality where they dont experience sexual attraction

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Absolutely if you have had a bad experience. So sorry but when you find the right one they will be understanding and either wait until your ready or make you feel comfortable. Sex has always hurt for me bc I have endometriosis and a tilted uterus. My husband has always been very patient... Wait for that one that will be patient and understanding

Is it normal to be afraid of sex??

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