Am I being a big baby?

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My BF has been irritating me lately, I.e not texting me back, being on his phone all the time when we're together etc. and even though I voiced my frustration he still does it. So yeah I've had a little attitude lately. Move on to today, 10 for $35 friggin dollars at VS tomorrow. Anyone who knows me knows I die for a VS sale so I texted him the email I got from them. 
Him, guess you'll be going to VS soon...
Me, uh my birthday and Christmas are coming up.
Him, no reply
That was at mmmm 2pm today? It's now 3am...the next day. I've had an attitude all day. I'm gonna call him now cause I know he's been at work since like 11 and I know he's been off for like an hour but ugh 😑 do I have the right to be irritated or no? I JUST WANT ATTENTION AND PANTIES!!!

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Just buy them yourself if you want them that badly. Sounds like he's annoyed and just taking some space from you. I'd say you should lay off the attitude and just give him some time to himself because he's going to take it anyway. You seem very overwhelming and he seems like he needs a break.

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I'm sorry but I can't blame him from avoiding you. I'd avoid you too.

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He doesn't have to pay for any of your stuff, you can get them yourself if you really want them. Maybe he already wants to get you something else for your birthday and Christmas. Personally, you come across quite clingy and he just wants some personal space

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Yes you are. I voted no but I meant yes. I don't demand things of my SO. I don't demand certain things for Christmas or for my birthday. He always gets me something nice and though. There have been a couple times where I mentioned things I might like. But I never demanded that he buy them and left it up to him. Grow up a little. And if you've only been together for a short period of time he is probably just super uncomfortable that you'd ask something like that. Buy them yourself.

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It sounds like he's being passive aggressive by not contacting you. You sound like you're not being very nice to be around.

I would be annoyed if my fiancé said "buy this for me!!" since it doesn't seem like the spirit of giving at all to be basically demanding a certain gift. I would also be annoyed if my fiancé completely ignored me instead of being straightforward and saying what he's feeling.

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I have to disagree with some of the previous comments.
Anyone would be mad if their significant other didn't talk to them from 2pm - 3am (& still obviously with no intent to, as 3am passes by) the next day! I would be concerned.
As far as the underwear thing.. yes, you can buy them yourself but I understand you want to see him TRY. Unfortunately, some guys just may not feel comfortable being in VS or doing so much shopping, period. If he comes around to it, let him know he can order online possibly?
Good luck!

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You mentioned a few times that you have an attitude.  I doubt he loves to be around that. Maybe it's not a good matchup. He sounds like a jerk and if you're basing your entire being/attitude around how he treats, you'll always be pissed. I'm inclined to say move on. 
As for the undie sale, I'm going to ask my hubby and most likely get the same response.  I hate shopping.

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I'd be irritated he didn't text/call me. Especially if he is always on his phone. I'd talk to him and see what the deal is. Seems like he's trying to avoid you.

As for the panties, it wouldn't phase me that my husband ignored that. He would not go buy those for me. Buy them yourself if you really want them.

Am I being a big baby?

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