wondering if I'm the only one?

I have never had a normal period in my whole life. I have taken the pill trying to get it to be a normal flow, that never worked I still missed my period for months on end. Then I tried the shot hoping it could help my period every month, that also was a bust. I am now not taking any medication because I have not found a obqyn that I could go to. I am just wondering if there is anyone else out there that goes through this and if it bothers anyone else as much as it bothers me and is there anything out there that helped you?