So if you aren't already aware of this.. I broke up with my husband because he's a narcissist and I'm 34 weeks pregnant ( expecting a boy ). I left for the safety of the baby I didn't want him to grow up with a dad who's easy to switch moods like he did with me because it would only mess up our babies head.

However, no one is certain what the future holds and regardless of the horrible torment I was put through with my husband. As well as me being psychologically scarred from my upbringing with my mum who also had an undiagnosed mental condition. I still see the good in people....

Now you are probably wondering what this has to do with my post..

Basically I'm due on the 13th January and my husband had accepted me not flying back and he is fully aware that we are and will remain separated. He does say though that he wants to be here for the birth of the baby.

Still, I don't know why.. I think its obviously because its a moment in history that you cannot miss out on in life is seeing the birth of your child.

My family however , which I don't blame them for, absolutely hate him. I have this bad imagine that he might turn up at the hospital wanting to see the baby and it all kicks off while I'm in labor. Personally I don't see the biggy of him being there.

I've not forgot what he put me through so I'll never get back with him, despite how I feel deep down inside. My family though like to take it up a notch by saying things like " if he turns up I'll kick him out " or I'll do this and that.. Blahblah blah

I'm just wanting to know everyone's opinion?

I'm really stuck. I will and won't feel comfortable with him being there, I don't want my son to know his farther wasn't there for the birth because of me and then my son hate me for it.

What should I do?