how do you ask a guy where things are going

Marla
So I've been kind of talking to someone the past 4 days that I've known for 3 years now and we've always had a connection but this weekend we reconnected and the first day he saw me he kept kissing me. The second day we had sex and the third day we went to see Christmas lights and held hands... idk if I should think anything of it or what but I'm really interested in him. Any tips on how to get him to be more interested in me and how to figure out what's going on between us?