I spend my week mostly at home since husband using the car for work, trying to survive with 3 kids. Cleaning, making meals for everyone, changing diapers for 3 of them, breastfeeding, laundry etc etc....

This week I decided not to do a thing to rest because my chest and arm muscle got bag from holding my very super needy 3mo. Yes I got the dishes pulled up in the sink this week end and I felt great! My husband didn't say anything until yesterday evening, he exploded calling me lazy, that the house is gross, that I cannot keep it clean, the laundry is pulling up, and that I don't do crap!? And just wait for him to clean up my mess WTF?! I was so mad, sad and angry!!!! I'm literally here the Cinderella 24/7. He does occasionally help one a week if I'm lucky! And put some dishes away to the dishwasher WOW I know right?! When I cook for 5, do laundry for 5, care for the 3 kids! What he expected ? A perfectly spotless clean home each day? Wake up asshole! I don't understand why everyone is so understanding and compassionate to my situation with the kids and he's such an asshole! No I didn't marry you to be your maid! =_=