With my first pregnancy and delivery I had him vaginally and did not tear. With this pregnancy his head is measuring 4 weeks ahead, so about 42 weeks or so and I am terrified of ripping. Do you feel it when it happens? How bad does it hurt? I am so terrified because I wanted an all natural birth again but because of the size of him I'm thinking about an epidural!😁 Which I definitely didn't want.