Missed my most fertile day due to stubborn other half :(

Woke up thinking oh it's my birthday and my most fertile day so best day to bd but other half decided to be lazy and go to sleep untill I went for my shower then started an arguement over nothin so we wouldn't bd. so I went out for a meal with his mum and sister came home and spent the day cryin while he decided to ignore me and go to sleep again so I've thrown the towel in and decided it's time to go bk on b/c if he can't be bothered to bd with me especially in the best days what the point in ttc any more :(