looking for OPINIONS!!

Erika🌼
I decided I wasn't going to track anything this month because it's all to stressful for me.. however, I noticed I had ewcm on Sunday so we bd'd. 
Anyways, these last few months I've been able to tell when I ovulate because of the pain and I get ewcm about 2 days before I O.
This time I haven't had any ovulation  pain... is it possible to have ovulation pain some months and then not not have any other months?? 
Even not trying is stressful 😩