is anybody else discouraged bc you see women commenting that they lost babies in the 2nd trimester?

Question

I have had two miscarriages and one chemical in between them. I will be 9 weeks at my next ultrasound this coming Tuesday. Sometimes I get worried and then I think "once I get to that second trimester I'll be fine" and then i get on flow and see women posting that they've lost their babies at 9, 14, and 20 weeks and it just discourages me all over again!!! I can't stand the thought of going through that heartbreak once again. They say once you make it to 12 weeks you are safe, and then I see these posts. :(

Answer

Hi Kennedy. 
Try not to worry. I know it's really difficult but it's not helping you or baby.

We have no control over these things. All we can do is hope for the best. Eat well, stay hydrated, rest.

Worrying doesn't have a good effect on the body.

Try to focus on a positive outcome. Try to avoid reading these things that worry you. For each worrying story you have read there are hundreds and thousands of positive outcomes. Look forwards and when you find yourself worrying try and think ok stop, let's think of something nice and positive instead xxx

is anybody else discouraged bc you see women commenting that they lost babies in the 2nd trimester?

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