I have had two miscarriages and one chemical in between them. I will be 9 weeks at my next ultrasound this coming Tuesday. Sometimes I get worried and then I think "once I get to that second trimester I'll be fine" and then i get on flow and see women posting that they've lost their babies at 9, 14, and 20 weeks and it just discourages me all over again!!! I can't stand the thought of going through that heartbreak once again. They say once you make it to 12 weeks you are safe, and then I see these posts. :(