Funny thing is my current man had explicit photos of his ex.He never old me about them either.he was asking me to send him nudes and I strictly said no and explained that those can end up anywhere and I will not be put in that position.His ass goes "I'm not that type.If I wanted I CAN post my exs photos" then he paused and said "I mean I would have".One that ex is his baby mama and two the man slipped.His language implied that he currently has explicit photos of his ex!It angered me so much! I would not let it go and then he finally admits to it.I got mad and yelled at him for it. His excuse guys was "they're in an external hard drive that I dnt have a cord to so u cnt get to the photos".He asked if I wanted the hard drive and I said yes so I can burn that shit.He all of a sudden said "well..I have important pics on there too" I asked like what and it took him literally almost 3mins before he remembered the important photos to be of his daughter and him and his twin.Eventually he went and purchased a cord and supposedly deleted them himself.He said I can go through the drive to see for myself too.I tried but it felt so weird. I'd rather have deleted the entire thing myself.he would go on his exes social media, save her photos to his phone and use that as her contact pic on his phone.😒anyways when I got mad about the explicit photos he went and complained to his sister and two of his male friends about it and pretty much they told him that I'm overreacting and that that is not a big deal.His sister included said that shit.She even said that her ex has photos of her.I never thought she as a woman would be unclassy in that way.What if ur husband had explicit photos of his ex?You sure as hell won't be happy if he still had them with u.And one of his make friends who is my older sisters bc said "that's not on her fucking business".that says a lot about his character. Another male friend told him that I need to understand that he had a past.Like yes dumbass a PAST is past tense not present so them photos should never have been there. Period. We've been together for almost a year and a half and I love him a lot. This incident along with the photo that he took from his exs fb were red flags to me that he's still into her. The way he speaks to her (and she disrespects him like crazy). What should I do???!