Completely torn and scared and sad
I've wanted a child for a long time now, and finally my husband and I decided we'd start trying.
Now someone very close to me needs a kidney transplant and I'm Scared. I'm scared for the other person. I'm scared to offer mine.
I've never had any kind of surgery in my life. I obviously don't want anything to happen to her. But I'm also selfishly scared. And if I were to be a match, that would mean putting off TTC for at least a year and a half. I'm 30 now so by then I'd be 32/33. I always thought I'd have kids by now. Not starting in my mid 30s.
I guess I just need some advice ... Do I offer to see if I'm a match or wait for someone else to? I feel like a horrible horrible person right now for not being the one to just automatically say I'd do it...
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