sex after baby

Hi All! I'm four months postpartum (today!) and sex still doesn't feel great. I keep reading about people who are in PAIN after sex for months... but I don't feel pain, I feel LOOSE. It makes me nervous reading about so many women who say sex hurts more and that they feel like they're "re-losing their virginity" because I haven't felt that at all. Any mommies feel the same? Will I ever be back to normal?
 My baby was only 7ibs 8oz, but she was also extracted via forceps, which I'm sure played a role in how my body is now. I just miss enjoying sex...