am I crazy or was this shady af

Lydia
So last night I was in a mood. I live with 2 of my closest friends and they both ditched me to go out and do their own things even though we all had plans together... whatever,+ my phone cracked so I was pissed. I'm in my room minding my business when I hear hem both come home around 12:30am. Then about 10-15 mins later I hear deep men voices in my house. We usually text eachother if someone's coming over so I was confused. I walk out of my room to see who's in my house and lo and behold it is my ex boyfriend and his bestfriend who tried to publicly shame me and call me a hoe on twitter because he put himself into an argument my ex and I were having at the time.
Anyways, I asked why tf are you in my house. No one answered everyone thought it was funny that I was upset. So I popped off at the boys and at my SO called best friend for bringing these two men into my house unannounced. Apparently she's started "talking" to his bestfriend and they were both together and he had comeoverto hang out... what hanging out happens at 12am is beyond me. But yeah, I popped off, my friend got all in her feelings and started crying and the other roommate decided it was her job to calm me down and explain to me where I was wrong for going off and that it wasn't other girl's fault...what? Anyways, I need some enlightenment cause this isn't the first time ol girl has brought a person I specifically asked her not to bring into our house over and I'm walking on eggshells and I swear I didn't do shit wrong!