Shaving ur butt hole are🍑🍑

I'm so embarrassed to even say or ask this but I have a really hairy anus like the area and everytime my BF wants to have sex I have to shave but I feel like he could feel the stubby hair. Tmi he told me he has hair there too but I never told him I have. When I didn't want him to touch my legs caz I hadn't shaved he was like "u don't have to feel insecure when ur with me" but I still feel ashamed. I just wnna know does anyone else shave theirs and if u do wat r ur tips to not have bumps etc😥