Be honest with yourself. Would you give your man and a second chance after cheating on you if you truly in love with him?

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I'm told I think differently for a girl. If my man cheated on me but I still loved him...I could take him back. BUT in my world once you break 100% Trust it affects the relationship. I do believe in forgive and forget. But you will no longer be privlaged to 100% of my love. You now may have 90% or 80%  ect. But at some point if a person keeps breaking trust their trust percentile won't make the grade. (Ie: The love is lost ) Over time the relationship would dissolve it's self. Love is derived from the power behind how much you trust someone. Eventually if someone keeps breaking your trust they are working backwards. They end back in the friend zone to eventually fade into a stranger....that's when they seem to just fade to black.

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I think if he were just a boyfriend, I'd be done with the guy.. But I'm married.. And I feel like I'd give my husband another chance. It would just be really hard to trust again.

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This happened to me about 3 years ago.  He never slept with them but was sexting and sayin he didnt have a girlfriend.  I noticed something was up with him so i took it upon myself to get to the bottom of it.  I went through his fone screenshoted the texts and sent them to my phone.  When he left for work i sent them to him and told him i wasnt about to put up with this bullshit.  Told him if he needed a break it was happening right now.  Packed my stuff up and left for a while.  He continually apologized for a week straight.  So i forgave him but let him kno that if i was returning to him i was gonna have full access to his messages and online accounts. He didnt quite like that but done it anyways.  He hasnt messed up since. But kinda worries me that one day he will. This man has my heart and id probly never leave him for good.  He cant stand not having me around. Were going on five years together and both of us are open with everything now.  This is the happiest ive been.  So trust ur instinct and itll take u were u need to go

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I did and it was the biggest mistake I ever made throughout the entire relationship. If he cheats, HE DOESN'T RESPECT  YOU.

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Once a cheater always a cheater

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I will be honest I have never been in this position only well bc I have never been in a relationship. Though I dont think i can give the guy a second chance. I am very paranoid and hold grudges very easily, especially on those who hurt me. Do it once and you will do it again. That is always in my mind when i see people getting hurt or those who hurt me. 
It isnt realatible in the sense of cheating  but my cousin has done so much s*** to my family and has "changed" but sadly is going to that side again and I since then have not been able to be around her or accept her apology. Do it once and you will do it again. That is just me.

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Before me and my husband got marry we had some bad connect. He would always want to have sex with me, but I turn him down because I would get yeast infection due to me being a diabetic. And plus on top of that we would fight about thing should get done around the house. And then lately he hang with the wrong people drinking a lot. We have finally had it out for good. I left with our two year old son. He beg me on come back. I really didn't want to come back because he might have start again. So we talk about it and I want to him. I ask him did he did anything at all. I notice he was taking a long time to answers and knew something was not right. So I find he was cheating with me with another woman. Yes, I was piss I was angry I want beat both of they ass. But I cry my soul out. He knew I was hurt. He say he sorry and he never do it again. I couldn't still trust him. After the whole things I want to give up so bad. I choice to work it out with him. We start little by little by working it out. He been trying so hard to ask forgiveness. I really in love with him. I know some think why would you be with him if he did that to you? Well I ask myself the same thing. I really care for him and in love with him. He improve himself. When something bad really happen and you realize that you are about to lose something important to you that you really care it will change you. We can see we love each so much. I told him if you do this again it over. Thing are getting better with us each day. We are happy now.

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my boyfriend and i stayed together after he cheated the first time, but if he did it again I'd be completely dobe with him. there's no coming back from that a second time... i wouldn't allow myself to go through that type of pain again... no matter how much i love him I'd have to put myself first.

Be honest with yourself. Would you give your man and a second chance after cheating on you if you truly in love with him?

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