Okay so my and my boyfriend have been together almost two years and have been sexually active for one and a half. No matter how often we have sex and no matter how much lube we use, I'm always extremely sore after sex and it makes me not want to have sex because it brings me back to days that I was sexually abused and it's starting to have an effect on our relationship, I don't want to have sex anywhere near as often because I don't want to think about the past. It's like my body turns something great into something terrible for me. We've started fighting more since the sex has decreased and he understands my reasoning but I'm scared the lack of sex may start to somewhat ruin things? Can I get opinions or ways to stop being so sore?