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I grew up LOVING children. I'm in my 20's now and I am feeling like I don't want kids, because I'm honestly afraid they will make me lose my mind. The crying and screaming I feel like will make me go psycho. But I do want kids, im just afraid of having them make me turn into someone I'm not (a grumpy, angry and annoyed person). Do any of you other moms/women have this fear/ have this actually happen? My mom says when it's my kid, I will love it no matter what. But honestly I'm skeptical... 😭

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It's way different when it's your own child! I used to HATE children! Then I had my unplanned pregnancy resulting is my wonderful daughter and I know love (most) kids! Lol don't judge

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I started to feel that way right about the time her head popped out of my cookie. It is scary, especially for first time mothers, but after the first week-month, you'll know your babies different cries. The hungry cry, the poopy diaper cry, the tired cry, the sick cry, the I want cuddles cry. And you'll feel nothing but great happiness knowing you know just what to do to comfort your baby. Being a mom only gets better and easier.

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Adopt an older child one day, it sounds like you're unsure of the infant/toddler phase.

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My friend who moved across the states to start a new life says the same thing. But I believe it's just fear. That's something you have to get over when you have kids. No more parties unless you count sleep overs and birthday parties "partying ". I personally can't wait. But that's just me. But I get where your coming from , I get stressed out real easily.

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