gay for pay?🤔

Ana
Ok so me and my fiancé are talking about letting a millionaire put a crusty finger up your vagina/ass. He asked if I would let it happen, take in mind this mans finger has fungus and literally looks crusty. I said no, obviously I will get backlash because who "wouldn't" right?? Well anyway that's just me I wouldn't want a fungus infected finger in my vagina. Then I asked him and he said yes😳😷 I obviously got furious because a man putting a finger in your asshole is simply "gay" in my eyes! He says no that it's not gay! Just the simple fact of a man violating another mans asshole is considered homosexual!! What are your thoughts???