He says I cry "too much"

When my boyfriend and I get into arguments or when things I planned to go the way I wanted to I cry. I don't cry sometimes because I'm sad but rather because of stress. Yesterday was my anniversary with my bf and we were talking about moving in and I guess I took his responses to what I was saying as him being mad with me and so I kind of just stayed quiet. And later I started crying to myself because that's not how I wanted our anniversary to go. He said "I get tired of always seeing you cry, I know that's the way you let go of things and I'm not asking you to not cry anymore but you need to be tougher and not cry over little things because I don't know how much I can take it." Basically this is putting a strain on our relationship. Idk if I'm wrong or he's wrong, to be fair I do cry for a lot of thing and overreact at times. I just need advice. I'm considering just not crying in front of him anymore and bottling up my feelings but Ik that will cause more problems