***RANT ALERT***

So my daughters granddad (partners dad) has called and said that he won't see our daughter until she's old enough, when she's like 6-7 years. When she can talk 😑 
I'm feeling really annoyed because why should she wait to see him because he can't be asked. It gets to me because he doesn't bother with his grandchild, he's happy with his new family that he forgets his old one. I don't want him to swan in and out of my child's life when he pleases. She's 3 years old and he see her like once every 6 months?!  Am I ok to feel like this?