So my bf and I just recently found out I'm pregnant. I'm a little over 4 weeks, we had the discussion before hand about me being a stay at home mom. And now he's been flipping out about me going back to work and sayin I'm selfish. Remind you, I'm high risk because I have Epilepsy so I've already stopped working. And I've talked to him telling him all the sacrifices I've already made caring this baby and the ones I will make during the journey and after the baby is here. Am I being selfish because I'd prefer to be a stay at home mom? At least until the child is in preschool.