I have a dilemma. Me and my man have been together for a long time. He is in the military. But we have not had sex in a long time. Reason being I was molested during one of his times away from me and it caused me to be frightened of being intimate. I've been working on everything and he has been the biggest blessing to me for waiting and helping me through it. But I want to be intimate with him and share our chemistry. How do I tell him. Without him thinking I'm too fragile to try??