Im 41 and my boyfriend is 42 as of today. After suffering with alcoholism my whole life, I finally got myself together to the point I'm ready. But now is it too late?? I have a 21 yo daughter and he has a ten yo. I'm afraid of what my family would say because of my age. I'm not the person I was when I had my daughter at 20. I've gotten weird faces from friends who are younger. I even got an "ew".