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So I'm not sure exactly how to word this but hopefully it is understood;
What are your deal breakers that would cause you to end a relationship (unmarried)?
Same question for married?
Do or have you in the past tolerated things in a unmarried relationship that you don't or won't in a relationship were your married?vice versa?
Why is it so easy to give up than try and work things out mainly in a marriage?