i wish we communicated better

Br
You never have to guess what's wrong with ill always tell you and want to talk about it but my fiance thinks im complaining or starting an argument, i brung up how she needee to be considerate of my needs during sex too (i also made a post about that) but his tactic is to always become defensive then wake up the next day and speak to me has everything fine as if he's hoping ill just get over it and won't bring it up anymore. But no I could give him the silent treatment for days and he wont care eventually hell say fine wth is the problem but im tired of it being that way