Need to vent ladies please

I can't take it anymore. Crying so hard right now. I have been with my man for 9 months now and he doesn't satisfy me sexually. When we have sex its okay.. But feels like a chore because he doesn't do what i like and when i tell him what i want he gets mad and tells me im asking for too much. It hurts me that my guy doesn't listen to my feelings. This has been going on since we first became sexually active... I even had to beg him for months to go down on me and even thats still a chore for him because i have to beg him. Most of the time he tells me he doesnt feel like it. Most people will tell you to tell him what u like or show him. Thing is, ive done all of that. Ive showed him, told him, demonstrated for him. Tryied to spice it up. But he gets pissed when i tell him im upset. I cannot stop crying about it because i love this man to death and theres no doubt that hes the one. We are so perfect for each other and sex and sexual convo is the only issue we have in our relationship. I try to get over it and look past it but it is SO hard being that I have a high sex drive, and not even that ladies, i just want my man to love on every inch of my body and talk to me and let me know he wants me. Is this too much to ask for? I wouldnt leave a good man over sex, but i really do not know how to get over it and learn to deal and accept the type of man i have. Please help ladies.... 😢