question!! he said what?!

So a couple times I've been told this by my bf that "women are meant to cook and clean, NOT men" 😒 he got mad once when I hadn't got to washing his underwear and he didn't have one pair to wear so went off on me telling me don't be lazy and do my "job". Umm excuse me I have a 2 year old daughter I've been taking care of all day doing other things with her! Since when is it only a "women's" job to cook and clean?! YOU have hands and feet your perfectly capable of washing a load of laundry before you run out it's not that hard. Mind you he doesn't have steady job so he's in and out as he pleases. So my question is "What is a WOMENS job?"