Stay?or leave?

Me and this guy been talking for 5 months and we meet and ended up loving eachother his meet my kids and family ...my family doesn't want me to have a bf but I really want to be his gf and some day live with him and etc and his dealing with other things on his own and we began fussing and hurting eachother feelings now he doesn't know if he wants me as his gf because he doesn't want to take it this slow but I love him and im trying hard and his backing out some we still talk but its changing he still doesn't know to want to do this idk if im wasting my time ?I feel like its my fault for trying it slow. Just didn't want to ruin it and it was still ruined .he still says he love me but isn't showing his love anymore idk what to do should I just stop?