Do I tell a woman that her husband asked me to have sex with him a couple years ago?

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Hey ladies, I need a little bit of advice. It was thinking about a couple years ago when is a guy that I was working with asked me to have sex with him. We were both drinking with a group of coworkers, and one by one everyone had to leave except for me and him. We were pretty drunk by then and he's always been pretty friendly with me. Like joking and maybe you might think flirting. But after everyone left he just kept coming closer and closer to me and then asked if I would go somewhere with him and have sex. I said no and left shortly after.

I know this was a long time ago and I've just tried to forget about it but I was thinking today that I I would want to know if that was going on in my marriage. If that happened with me probably happen with other people right? I mean maybe not but there's a possibility. So I was thinking about telling her anonymously not giving her any details but I also don't want him to know that I told.

Should I just leave them alone since it was so long ago and I won't even give her details of who I am or how it happened. I feel like it would just give her a lot of questions and she wouldn't really have any information to as her husband. Plus they have two children, and I wouldn't want a stupid drunken mistake to break up their family.

Thanks.

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You should've told her when it happened not years later. Because now it's kinda like whatever information to her

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It's over, let it go!

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Not after all this time has passed. What's the point.

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I agree it's abit late to bring it up now. And if you don't know the woman I think it's best to stay out of it.

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He was drunk..you were drunk...you said no..and waited 2 years..it's irrelevant information at this point honestly. And you dont know if he has actually cheated on her at this point or not. Let it go.

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Since he was so drunk and nothing happened id say no. Just leave it like that. Drunk people do and say stuff they would of otherwise not have said and done.

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For all you know they may have an agreement. Since you don't know her, it happened 2 years ago, leave it alone

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The right thing would've been to tell her when it happened. If you told her now she probably wouldn't believe it, and her husband would probably deny it. But honestly, i don't care how long ago it was. If i was married, I'd wanna know as a wife. Because her husband could still be asking women to sleep with him, or he maybe could have already cheated. Or maybe it was just a drunken mistake. Not being sober isn't a reason to try and cheat though. 🐸☕

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He was drunk. 
Let it go. .

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If your going to tell her you can't do it anonymously because of all the questions and details she'll have and want to know. If I got a random message telling me my husband attempted and failed to cheat on me 2 years ago with no other details or way to get them I would be like wtf?? Talk to my husband 9x out of 10 believe that someone is just trying to make waves in our relationship out of jealously anger etc and be pissed at an anonymous hater. So go big or don't go at all.

Do I tell a woman that her husband asked me to have sex with him a couple years ago?

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