Is anyone else waiting for a D&C?

Sam • 🇬🇧 UK Full Time Mum, 2YO girl, pregnant with 2nd
We discovered our loss at our 12w scan on Monday after bleeding like a period over the weekend (and every day since) we went for another scan Tuesday & were told that because the foetus is only 3mm with no heart beat we have to come back in a week for another scan before they can book the D&C. Even though I took a positive test on 24th October so I know I couldn't be less than 10 weeks.
I hate this limbo, should be able to have it done in a week. I'll be glad when it's all over, it's been traumatic enough as it is.
And I hate wearing pads, I feel like an incontient person 🙈